Knowing how to please your partner in bed is not that easy as you may think it would be. Most people are very reluctant to talk about sex, and that does not make it any easier. I have met a lot of other women who says that it is hard to know how to please a partner in bed. Even some of my friends who work for London escorts say that they cannot get that bit right all of the time. If the girls from London escorts cannot please their partners in bed, what change do the rest of us have.
The most important thing that you should try to do, is to talk about sex. Monica, my friend who works for charlotte escorts, says that people still hate to talk about sex in detail. We may tell about that we don’t want him to do this or that, but we don’t tell him what he should be doing instead to make us happy. According to Monica, and some of the other girls at London escorts as well, men are just as guilty of this as women.
When I worked for charlotte escorts, it was clear that a lot of men find it hard to talk about sex with their partners. A lot of the gents that I dated at London escorts had been with their partners for a long time, and like anyone else in a long term relationship, they felt that something new and exciting was needed after many years of having been together. Figuring out what that is, is not always easy to do. You simply need to be brave enough to talk about it.
The thing is that you can try different things. I was forever suggesting new things to try to the gents that I dated at London escorts. It surprised me how many gents are reluctant to play with sex toys. A lot think that they are going to hurt the woman, and they simply misunderstand how much women need satisfaction. Finding out what can satisfy your wife, or partner, is often easier said than done. Women are happy to tell other women, and often do so in graphic detail, but talking to men about their needs, is a different ball game for most women.
Do men have special needs in bed? Of course, they do. It is easy for most women to presume that most men just want to see a pair of black stockings and sexy high heels, but there is a lot more to men’s sexuality than that. Not even some of the girls at London escorts find it that easy to get to the bottom of men’s sexuality, so I am pretty sure that there are lots of partners out there having a hard time. Men are less emotional about sexuality and women often get sexuality and emotions mixed up. To men, sex and emotions are two different things, two women it is the same thing. Perhaps this is the key to understanding why it can be so hard to please your partner in bed.